Do you know what’s up with my husband? He’s the kind of guy who likes to have a couple of drinks on the way home from the bar, so after I go to bed, when I get up to take a shower I’m not really feeling like I’ve got much going on.
I’ll admit I’ve never been a big drinker, but Hes the type of guy who seems to really enjoy a drink on his way to a bar. So when I get up in the morning and he’s not ready (and I’m already drunk), I think I’ll call him and maybe we can go to a bar somewhere that’s not our neighborhood or something.
I guess a couple of drinks on your way home from a bar would work until you’re not so drunk, but Hes the kind of guy who’d be up drinking and getting loud with his friends that evening at your place. So when he comes home and realizes he’s still only got a few beers left, he’ll be a little pissed. And he might just drive off in his car.
It’s not really about sex, but about the emotional state of your partner. The fact that he’s drunk isn’t going to make him a lot more attractive to you, but it could make him more interesting to you in the future.
As a person with a drinking problem, I’m used to being the one who has to be on duty, so I’m not surprised that I’m getting a little too interested in the person who has to be on duty the next night. I’m also not surprised that I’m getting a little too interested in the person who is having sex with his wife. It’s a bit more than just having sex, but it can be both.
It goes without saying that having sex with your spouse is one of the most emotionally intense parts of your relationships, but if you’re a person with a drinking problem, you probably don’t want to do that with your wife. But if you and your spouse are both in a relationship with alcohol, then maybe you should find a way to have sex more often with him, and just keep things sexier.
I know it’s a bit of an awkward question, but if you’re married, do you think you’re an alcoholic? We hear so many of our friends and family members say that once they realized they were in an alcoholic relationship, they were much happier. But, I think the answer is actually more complicated than that. Yes, it’s possible to be an alcoholic and still be a good person. It’s also possible to be an alcoholic and still be a bad person.
It all depends on how you define being an alcoholic. If you’re talking about a person who’s drinking regularly, then yes, the answer is yes. If you mean someone who’s having an occasional drink, you might be right. But to me, the definition of alcoholism is something in between. A person who has an occasional drink but no chronic drinking problem.
A problem drinking addict may not be an alcoholic. An alcohol addiction is not a disease. An alcohol addiction is not a mental illness. A problem drinking addict is a different person than a regular drinker.
I can’t say I have ever been a problem drinker. I drink socially and socially-drinks to avoid social obligations. I also like to drink for the pleasure of it. My drinking happens at parties, bars, and at home or in my car.